cvin’s posterous

The daily musings of a teenager 

Testing, 123

Trying to update my Posterous from a new service called Glue. It allows me to update to multiple sources, just like Posterous does. Since there’s no Posterous app for the iPhone/iPod touch, I’ll use the new Glue app to publish to Posterous which will then publish itself to Twitter & my Facebook news feed. Awesome, it’s just one big chain of updates.

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Arguments

Arguments have the power to break people to bits within seconds. Arguments are no doubt an evil force waiting to grab someone and ensnare them into its trap. However, they can also build relationships, if settled correctly.


I know I can get into heated arguments and yell nonstop at people, blinded by anger and unwilling to reach a conclusion. I talk back, I scream, I say all these things I don't mean with the hope that I can get some sort of regret or sympathy from the opposer. Oh I know it all too well. I say I'll learn from past arguments, but it never happens. I'm a mold that needs a lot of shaping. But it seems I always look at my mistakes rather than the progress I've already made.

Anyways, how can you reach a peaceful conclusion with all this hatred and yelling going on? Well both people need to realize they're both acting stupid. Seems kind of crude, but it's true. In an argument, I know I'm acting stupid, yet I continue to try to show dominance in the altercation. 

Next, deal with the issue with talking, not yelling. If someone gives you sass, be patient. We should never be quick to get angry.

Finally - apologize.

All these things I've said are beliefs that I have in my mind, yet I struggle to follow. In arguments, I tend to just forget about all these things. No surprise considering I basically inherited my temper. But nonetheless I must learn from mistakes and try harder to make sure my relationship with whomever is not permanently scarred by unforgiving anger.

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Filed under  //   arguments   fights   flaws   forgiving   God   hatred  

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Before you speak

Before you sputter words of hate, before you criticize, before you echo your harsh opinions, before you stereotype, before you discriminate, before you judge, before you even say one word, just remember that there is always someone listening. You may not realize how easily you can impact someone's life by the words you speak, whether or not you know they're listening. 

So think before you speak and think for others and how they feel. You think it's harmless, what you say, but it may not be. Those words could be like sharp daggers piercing one at the deepest parts of his or her soul. 

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The End of Counting

Yes, that's right! Calorie counting has ended today for me. After hearing what my mom had to say, I pretty much decided I didn't really need it. It had become an obsession and it was something that was constantly on my mind at some point. So what does this mean for me? Does it mean that I go back to eating every bad food that caused my weight gain in the first place?

No. It definitely doesn't. Though I'm not counting calories, I am still uptight when it comes to what kind of food I'm eating. Healthy is the way to go, guys. If you don't believe me, then there's nothing that I can really do about it; it's your choice!

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- Calvin

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Filed under  //   brocolli   burgers   calories   chips   counting   eating   food   fruits   healthy   hungry   junk   vegetables   whole grains  

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The Two Sides to Humanity

Reflecting upon my life and my actions always leads to the discovery of an imaginary mirror. A mirror that extends itself into every vein of my body, revealing mysteries and secrets that I rarely think about in every day life. It's a mirror that will help me establish the good and bad.

I recently acted wrongly against my parents. I was disrespectful and grumpy and my words and actions expelled themselves from my hardened heart. In the end I was left feeling guilty and empty, having wronged my parents & myself. I pray for a change in the way I act and show myself to others. I believe it's important that I really let my light shine. God is in me, but when others see me act in anger, can they tell? Can anybody tell there's a God in me when I join in on conversations fueled by the pleasures of the world? 

I need to hold this mirror up high. I must adjust it so it's reflecting my very soul. What can I do to uproot the evil in me and implant the good? I pray that I will receive the answer to this and that I can change. I can show a good side to others, but the bad side still erupts time to time. I know I won't be able to be perfect but I can at least try to improve the way I act and display myself.

After all, when my mirror is reflected upon society and all of the nonbelievers, would I want them to see light reflected or a shattered mirror that resembles the many out there?

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School helps? What?

Today I was sitting in my English class taking a vocabulary test when one of the words stood out to me -- supercilious. I never thought much of it until today but here's why: I look around my school and all I see (in general) are a lot of girls that decide that they are better than other people because of many reasons, like beauty or money, etc. It's not only girls, it can be upperclassmen and in rare cases underclassmen. Guys can do it too although it's not as obvious as girls. 

Yes it sounds like I'm over generalizing but it's only my opinion and observation. I know however, that one of my friends Trevor is a good kid that wouldn't do that. (There, Trevor, happy?) :)

So the next time you ever find yourself people watching, think of whether you act supercilious sometimes or not, because you are most likely part of the majority if you do.

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How Long Should My Posts Be?

Back at Wordpress I usually wrote paragraphs upon paragraphs in my posts. Although usually offering as much sound advice as I could think, I felt that my posts were too long. Now that I transitioned over here to Posterous, I find that the suggestion here is to make short, simple posts. Few words, few pictures, few everything. Short, simple, and BAM there you have it, a blog post. But Is there really any limit here on Posterous, or Tumblr, or any other website? No, I don't think so. I might keep posting long posts because I don't feel that blogging should always be about pleasing your readers. 

Sure, you should definitely pay attention to them but not cater your posts to them or edit out things to please them. If they like your blog then good, but if they will only read it if you do this and that then don't bother with them.

Here's an article from Darren Rowse (Pro Blogger) relating to post length -- http://www.problogger.net/archives/2006/02/18/post-length-how-long-should-a-blog-post-be/#

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An Obsession

Right now in my life I'm fighting obsessions. We've all had them. The fads that go through our decades can resonate with many of you. As of now I am focusing a lot on counting calories, eating healthy, and Lady Gaga. They're all very peculiar things, I agree. I have lost quite a lot of weight and have some belly fat still and now that I have this app called Lose It on my iPod touch, I am interested and in the habit of tracking calories. Albeit it's quite difficult, it's become an addiction as well.


Then comes the eating healthy part. That's not entirely a bad thing. It's a great thing, in fact, that I would want to improve my eating habits. The problem is that I am always scrutinizing meals and complaining when I have a little bit of unhealthy stuff. That's the problem.

Thirdly, my music obsession. It may be odd that someone like me would like Lady Gaga, considering society places its laws upon men and women, allowing them to like only certain kinds of music. Well sorry society, I'm breaking out of your box. You can't tell me who I can listen to, you can't classify me as anything based on what I listen to, and I say this because I know the thoughts people will think when they read this. I'm not psychic, you're just very predictable. Anyways, she's weird, I admit that. Her videos are scary, her performances are still scary, but her songs and the way she performs are awesome. Very, very awesome. And I try not to praise her so much, because I have to remember that God is always first, yet it's hard to always put God first sometimes because I always feel I'm subtly putting this before him.

And one more thing. For a quick-post-type blog like Posterous, am I posting too much?

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the world is a funny place

This isn't the right time for me to blog, but I haven't done it in a while. I have lots of homework to do and would rather not blog at the moment because I have a few minutes to finish my homework before Glee comes on :)

 

Anyways, the father of a friend of mine is currently dying, if not already dead. We have prayed, but we know that God is in control. In situations like these it is very complicated when thinking of prayer. We have faith, we have hope, and we pray, but when it comes to life it is very hard to always be so confident. If all our prayers for the sick were answered, the word sick would not exist.

And so the Lord giveth life, and the Lord taketh. I am not trying to be negative. I am not saying that you shouldn't pray for the sick or dying. I'm saying that we have to realize that life is but a mere temporary home here on earth and all of us can go any moment. Be thankful for what you have already, keep looking at the great things you have instead of the great things you don't have, spend time with your loved ones and friends, be a good person on this earth while you stay. 

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you could be a sweet dream

OR a beautiful nightmare, either way I don't wanna wake up from you. That's a Beyonce song but that has nothing to do with this post. Just wanted to ask all of you if you've ever sat and thought about the way your mind works when you're asleep.

For example, last night I had such a weird dream and I actually remember every part of it as if my mind was slowed down. Usually I wake up with no memory of my dream at all, but this time I felt like it was occurring in real-time. Anyways, one thing I noticed was that I needed to go use the bathroom A LOT during my dream. When I woke up, I had the same effect. I needed to use the bathroom.

SO I was wondering how dreams work. How you never really see yourself die because you wake up as soon as you get shot -- How dreams replayed over and over again can have significance -- How you can save others' lives or your own through dreams -- How you may act based upon a dream -- How dreams can seem like they take place in 10 minutes over the 8 hours of sleep you got.

It's just strange.

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